This Week’s Shift: Reflect Before You Plan
Before I thought about 2026, I asked myself a quieter question in my journal: What actually happened this year, and where did the time go? I wrote everything down.
The good. The hard. The moments I wouldn’t volunteer to repeat. Instead of brushing past the tough parts, I treated them as proof points. Evidence that I can show up, adapt, and survive complexity. Reflection is how I make sure I don’t make the same mistake twice. From there, I made a second list.
Things I do not want to repeat. And how I’m going to make sure I don’t. Only after that did it make sense to ask what I want next. Here’s what keeps surprising me, year after year.
The biggest gains rarely come from adding more. They come from removal. Most of the friction in my life and business isn’t because I’m incapable. It’s because I’ve stacked too many priorities at once. Too many “reasonable” commitments. Too many things that dilute focus instead of compounding it.
As I look toward the next decade, that math matters more than ever. Lately, I’ve been meeting challenges with one simple filter: Is this something I should force? Or something I should let flow?
That question alone has saved me from unnecessary effort and self-created pressure. |