When Uncle Jerry insists on talking about the election...
With Thanksgiving just around the corner, I wanted to share a little mental model that might just save your holiday season (and your sanity): Hanlon’s Razor.
This model is a game-changer, especially when you find yourself sitting across from family members with, let’s say, interesting opinions.
In those moments, it's easy to assume that someone is being intentionally annoying.
But Hanlon’s Razor tells us:
“Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by neglect, ignorance, or incompetence.”
So, when Uncle Jerry insists on bringing up his take on the election at dinner, it’s not necessarily a scheme to ruin your pumpkin pie.
He might just think he’s being clever.
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Why you need Hanlon's Razor
Let’s be real. The holidays can feel like a battleground of small misunderstandings, forgotten dishes, and delayed arrivals.
Hanlon’s Razor helps you navigate these situations with empathy and patience.
Instead of assuming malice, you assume a lack of planning, oversight, or just plain forgetfulness. Think of it like this:
- Your cousin shows up an hour late: Maybe they hit traffic, not that they don't value your time.
- Grandpa makes an awkward comment about your business: Maybe he doesn’t fully understand what you do, not that he’s judging your career choices.
This model helps you stay cool, be generous with your assumptions, and focus on enjoying the time together—no matter how quirky it gets. |
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